Taking off the blindfolds.

Many people in our current day society are too busy wearing blindfolds that obstruct to the real vision about adoption. It is not this glorious thing that many make it out to be, it is a cold, heartless invention of mankind that makes the infertile appear to be as functioning as all others in the society. It gives the infertile the appearance of normality, success, and it makes them seem as though they are good people especially when others hear that they have adopted. In reality, they are nothing but no good, baby stealing bastards. They come in on their hawks, soaring above hospitals where young women are delivering and swoop in and steal their children. This is a bit of an exaggeration, I do realize that, but it is true in a sense. The infertile are waiting for women like myself many moons ago, to try to get pity from us, the unwed mothers, and for them to sign over their rights, their genealogy, their heritage, their chance at being a mother, for the selfishness of the infertile that are somehow okay with tearing apart a family, corrupting family trees, forever changing genealogy, not even considering that the best thing for the child is to stay with their natural family. The selfish actions of the infertile have changed the lives of many children that were adopted for the worse. It takes them away from the thing that they are familiar with; the heart beat of their mother. Somehow the infertile justify it by saying things such as that they are the child's mother, that the child was meant to be theirs, that they deserve a child. No one deserves a child, a child is a gift that many want but few get. Be appreciative you no good, baby stealing, selfish bastards, for women as myself who placed their children for adoption because of the lack of support around them. Next time you want to buy a baby, yes, I said buy a baby, you should give that fucking money to the mother so the baby has no adoption related issues and the mother of the child will be able to support the child instead of forking over thousands to a money hungry industry. Nice going, dumb ass.

Regaining Composure- Post 1

As the years have past, more and more lies have been revealed about adoption and the harms of it. It not only damages the child for the rest of their life, it also damages the mother for the rest of her life as well. This is me, my life, my story as a natural mother and an adopted daughter. In recent years, I have placed my son out of coercion of the couple and the agency. When I was carrying my beautiful son, the adoptive couple wanted everything to do with me, we would eat out together, go on activities together but once the rights to my son were no longer mine, everything changed for the worse. When my son was born, he had to be in the NICU for several weeks. Immediately after birth, the adoptive mother took my son out of my arms and walked out of the room and there I was, I was alone in a strange place and no baby to prove that I had done anything. My mother recalls the adoptive mother looking into the glass room where my son lay hooked up to countless machines and the adoptive mother said, "I knew he was going to be early, but I had no idea my son would be hooked up to so many machines." Yes folks, you read that right, this woman referred to my son as her own son before I had signed any papers, made any final decisions, and when I was at my weakest. What drives adoptors to this point where they feel that every new born is theirs? This, this the world may never know.