Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Taking off the blindfolds.

Many people in our current day society are too busy wearing blindfolds that obstruct to the real vision about adoption. It is not this glorious thing that many make it out to be, it is a cold, heartless invention of mankind that makes the infertile appear to be as functioning as all others in the society. It gives the infertile the appearance of normality, success, and it makes them seem as though they are good people especially when others hear that they have adopted. In reality, they are nothing but no good, baby stealing bastards. They come in on their hawks, soaring above hospitals where young women are delivering and swoop in and steal their children. This is a bit of an exaggeration, I do realize that, but it is true in a sense. The infertile are waiting for women like myself many moons ago, to try to get pity from us, the unwed mothers, and for them to sign over their rights, their genealogy, their heritage, their chance at being a mother, for the selfishness of the infertile that are somehow okay with tearing apart a family, corrupting family trees, forever changing genealogy, not even considering that the best thing for the child is to stay with their natural family. The selfish actions of the infertile have changed the lives of many children that were adopted for the worse. It takes them away from the thing that they are familiar with; the heart beat of their mother. Somehow the infertile justify it by saying things such as that they are the child's mother, that the child was meant to be theirs, that they deserve a child. No one deserves a child, a child is a gift that many want but few get. Be appreciative you no good, baby stealing, selfish bastards, for women as myself who placed their children for adoption because of the lack of support around them. Next time you want to buy a baby, yes, I said buy a baby, you should give that fucking money to the mother so the baby has no adoption related issues and the mother of the child will be able to support the child instead of forking over thousands to a money hungry industry. Nice going, dumb ass.

1 comment:

  1. So true! I am sorry you have had to experience the reality of adoption - for those of us who have been cast there, whether adoptee or mother, it is a nightmare of seismic proportion.

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